So there was me 14 and never been kissed at the start of 2008. Waiting to go back to school to start year 10. I was on the surface "shy", but really i just had no self confidence. I felt like I was beneath everyone, everyone was better then me. In my eyes I wasn't pretty, or perfect or every guys dream girl. I didnt have a personality that made everyone drawn to me. I didnt have the brightest smile. I didnt have any overwhelming great talent. So i thought i was a dud. Plain, boring. I kept to myself. I had a group of mates. And i rarely ever ventured out of this group. Because i had the theory that they liked me for me and no one else would. I didnt wanna show off who i was to anyone else. I had problem with looking people in the eye. I had to check myself in the mirror every three second to make sure there wasnt a hair out of place. Growing up ive had alot of pressure to be my best. Hence i felt like i should look my best.
I dont know what to blame for the terrible way i looked at myself . And frankly. the old me would of found someone or something blame.
" I was teased when i was little" or something like that.
But im not going to blame anyone any more.
A big thing for me this year was boys. I had three boyfriends. The first one lasted 3 days, it was kind of a yeah, ok. lets go out. I dont really know you , lets break up kinda thing.
The next boy, well lets just say he wasnt the best introduction to a potentialy serious boyfriend.
& at the time caused alot of pain.
The next boy, is someone ill never forget
He knows who he is, and why ill never forget him.
I had all the intention to write down everything that happened between me and this boy,
but ive only just finally let go and i dont feel like i need to tell you.
You dont need to know, I dont need your sympathy.
So whats the point?
Im ready to move on from everything thats happened.
Im looking for that guy that makes me laugh, makes me smile. And someone i can really trust.
But isnt every girl?
I dont know what 2009 will bring in the boy department, but what ever it does.
Im ready.
Im ready to leave 2008 behind in that respect.
Also in 2008, my dog of 19 years passed away. That was really hard on everyone. He had been there every single day of our lives. Ever since I was born. He was just like another member of the family. I dont think ive come to terms with it yet. When ever i start to think about it. I block it out becuase i know it will cause pain. Im not sure if ill ever accept it? or cry about it again?
but i know that i havent let go completely.
I have a habit of holding on for too long.
Sickness. In 2008 there was various sickness. My brother, my dad , my mum and my sister all got sick in some way or another.
I got really sick. It was one of the lowest parts of my life.
After years of a bad diet. I got to the point where i had no iron in my blood and i couldnt function normally. I lost the ability to work, move and even at one point walk. It was a low time for me becuase at the same time i was also dealing with another really painful situation.
For weeks at a time i would just sit there every night and just cry.
After id felt sick or had an another arguement with him or her.
I was so upset. Depressed. I couldnt control what i was doing.
Id ask the same questions over and over again.
I just give up on what ever i was doing.
I would complain like nones business.
I lost my will to go out.
To get ready.
To help myself.
At this point i was emotional as all hell. And i was so sick. But i didnt know why.
When i found out it was my fault.
I lost it.
I couldnt take it.
I was going to make a big deal about it and such, as the old me would do.
But i stepped back and was like no.
Im not going to be how i was before.
I can do this.
So i " hardened the fuck up" and got on with it.
I am still not completely well. But i am a hell of a lot better.
I look and feel better.
And this event is what inspired my greatest change:
Ive only lately come to terms with who I am. Im no longer who i thought i was at the start of the year. Im a hell of a lot more confident. Ive gone out there and made friends. Ive stopped making excuses about why i wont go out here or do this with this person. Im sick of not helping myself. I used to have a habit of making my life worse for myself. But now. Not anymore. Im only helping myself. Im not making the worse out of a situation as i used to do. Im seeing the positive. Especially in myself.
People have said to me " oh you're gorgeous"
or " your like perfect!"
for so long. id look in the mirror. and just go. wtf are they talking about?
but lately ive stepped back and realised.
hey yeah i am tall and thin and blonde.
some people would kill for that.
I am me.
I dont need to dress it up.
People like me for me.
and ive only just realised that.
I am a nice, honest helpful person,
And "I am seeing in me now. The things you swore you saw yourself"
Thank you everyone who believed in me when i never did.
And now im starting to. And im not ashmed to say that.
I cant wait to get into this year.
And think about the amazing people ill meet,
the amazing things ill do.
With my new found attitude.
Life really is a gift.
As many of us have at some point. I used to wonder the point of life?
Why wasnt each and everyday exciting! better then the last! Why wasnt i jumping out of bed every morning ready to greet the new day!
Then i realised.
Life is what you make of it.
I dont know what to blame for the terrible way i looked at myself . And frankly. the old me would of found someone or something blame.
" I was teased when i was little" or something like that.
But im not going to blame anyone any more.
A big thing for me this year was boys. I had three boyfriends. The first one lasted 3 days, it was kind of a yeah, ok. lets go out. I dont really know you , lets break up kinda thing.
The next boy, well lets just say he wasnt the best introduction to a potentialy serious boyfriend.
& at the time caused alot of pain.
The next boy, is someone ill never forget
He knows who he is, and why ill never forget him.
I had all the intention to write down everything that happened between me and this boy,
but ive only just finally let go and i dont feel like i need to tell you.
You dont need to know, I dont need your sympathy.
So whats the point?
Im ready to move on from everything thats happened.
Im looking for that guy that makes me laugh, makes me smile. And someone i can really trust.
But isnt every girl?
I dont know what 2009 will bring in the boy department, but what ever it does.
Im ready.
Im ready to leave 2008 behind in that respect.
Also in 2008, my dog of 19 years passed away. That was really hard on everyone. He had been there every single day of our lives. Ever since I was born. He was just like another member of the family. I dont think ive come to terms with it yet. When ever i start to think about it. I block it out becuase i know it will cause pain. Im not sure if ill ever accept it? or cry about it again?
but i know that i havent let go completely.
I have a habit of holding on for too long.
Sickness. In 2008 there was various sickness. My brother, my dad , my mum and my sister all got sick in some way or another.
I got really sick. It was one of the lowest parts of my life.
After years of a bad diet. I got to the point where i had no iron in my blood and i couldnt function normally. I lost the ability to work, move and even at one point walk. It was a low time for me becuase at the same time i was also dealing with another really painful situation.
For weeks at a time i would just sit there every night and just cry.
After id felt sick or had an another arguement with him or her.
I was so upset. Depressed. I couldnt control what i was doing.
Id ask the same questions over and over again.
I just give up on what ever i was doing.
I would complain like nones business.
I lost my will to go out.
To get ready.
To help myself.
At this point i was emotional as all hell. And i was so sick. But i didnt know why.
When i found out it was my fault.
I lost it.
I couldnt take it.
I was going to make a big deal about it and such, as the old me would do.
But i stepped back and was like no.
Im not going to be how i was before.
I can do this.
So i " hardened the fuck up" and got on with it.
I am still not completely well. But i am a hell of a lot better.
I look and feel better.
And this event is what inspired my greatest change:
Ive only lately come to terms with who I am. Im no longer who i thought i was at the start of the year. Im a hell of a lot more confident. Ive gone out there and made friends. Ive stopped making excuses about why i wont go out here or do this with this person. Im sick of not helping myself. I used to have a habit of making my life worse for myself. But now. Not anymore. Im only helping myself. Im not making the worse out of a situation as i used to do. Im seeing the positive. Especially in myself.
People have said to me " oh you're gorgeous"
or " your like perfect!"
for so long. id look in the mirror. and just go. wtf are they talking about?
but lately ive stepped back and realised.
hey yeah i am tall and thin and blonde.
some people would kill for that.
I am me.
I dont need to dress it up.
People like me for me.
and ive only just realised that.
I am a nice, honest helpful person,
And "I am seeing in me now. The things you swore you saw yourself"
Thank you everyone who believed in me when i never did.
And now im starting to. And im not ashmed to say that.
I cant wait to get into this year.
And think about the amazing people ill meet,
the amazing things ill do.
With my new found attitude.
Life really is a gift.
As many of us have at some point. I used to wonder the point of life?
Why wasnt each and everyday exciting! better then the last! Why wasnt i jumping out of bed every morning ready to greet the new day!
Then i realised.
Life is what you make of it.
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